Balance
Balance is a characteristic needed to refuse abduction. Balance is also very useful in identifying an attempted abduction and having the conviction that you have the right to say "NO"! The first part of balance is to know yourself well enough to recognize when and how you become unbalanced. Recognizing this helps one against negative alien intrusion. The next part is to make a plan to change the actions that lead to a state of unbalance. You may want to divide a sheet of paper into three columns and label them: PROBLEM - STEPS TO CHANGE - SOLUTION. Realize that change cannot occur unless you first realize you have a problem and then think about how to solve the problem.
The first step of thinking about what causes unbalance, means you have to figure out which traps such as: TV, books, sleep, sex, alcohol, drugs, infatuation, etc., which distractions such as: hobbies, family, spouse, children, grandchildren, sports, surfing the net, etc. or which "hot button" items like: road rage, teasing, politics, religion, etc. cause you to slam from calm and centered to unbalanced. By thinking daily about what causes unbalance and then discussing it with a trusted friend, you will be able to identify areas that need work. Realize there is no quitting of old habits "cold turkey"; the change will be gradual but will happen with persistence. It helps to look at your own life and compare where you are today spiritually to where you were in the past, and then compare where you are today to where you would like to be in the future.
One visible sign of change could be a calmer demeanor. You may be less likely to be drawn into argumentative "hot button" issues as in the past. Compassion for others will increase as you witness the struggles others have to make to succeed. You may have a hard time letting go of old thought patterns but realize that God is not finished with anybody yet. Also, please avoid taking someone else's karma as your own, and allow them to make their own choices and reap the consequences. You can warn others about the bad aliens and encourage them to refuse abductions, however if they choose to leave themselves open to negative experiences, their freewill choice must be accepted.
Policing Yourself
As the years went by we decided that we wanted to become better people. We discovered we needed to be balanced, loving and compassionate and not let ego control our lives. Policing ourselves is the tool that we discovered worked best for protecting us from
negative aliens and from the negativity on the planet.
Deciding to make a change was the easy part, now we had to figure out how to keep on the path we had chosen for ourselves. Realizing that we needed to know ourselves better, we worked on analyzing ourselves for months. We could see each other's weaknesses, addictions and problems but rarely could see our own. It took a long time to figure out that we lie to ourselves, make excuses for our behavior or just do not want to put in the effort it takes to become a better human being.
Once we faced ourselves, we realized we needed a plan and came up with these guidelines:
- Be truthful and honest with yourself.
- No justifications
- No exaggerations
- No illusions about self or others
- Examine yourself at the end of each day, if not more often
- Admit your problems, screw-ups and faults. Take responsibility for all your actions and thoughts.
- Analyze any problems you are having, be it at work or at home and be honest
- Try to see everything from the other person's point of view.
- Own up to the part you play in a problem situation and do not worry about the part other people play
- Ask for God's help, then meditate on it
- Once you have learned from these experiences take conscious action to correct the problem and work on not letting it happen again
Policing yourself is not an easy thing to do and we often fall back into old patterns of behavior. When this happens, we go back to the policing guidelines and start over. Go out into this big beautiful world and spend less time thinking of only yourself. Try to maintain balance in all aspects of life and take responsibility for all actions.
